Most people don't know what a Pleasure Profile is much less what their's or their partners might be. Learning more about your own profile and finding value in your individuality not only allows you to receive more pleasure but to give more pleasure as well.
Want to know more? Keep reading!
What is pleasure?
Pleasure in American English as a NOUN:
a pleased feeling; enjoyment; delight; satisfaction
one's wish, will, or choice "What is your pleasure"
a thing that gives delight or satisfaction
gratification of the senses; sensual satisfaction
amusement; fun
Pleasure as a VERB:
to give sexual enjoyment or satisfaction to "Tell me what will pleasure you."
to take pleasure in
derive enjoyment from
I believe we all have an inherent desire to pleasure and to receive pleasure by our partner. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Pleasure is great right!
Learning more about your Pleasure Profile helps you gain knowledge about what works for you. Then, you can let your partner know. In gaining this knowledge about yourself, you can start to see similarities and differences in your partner's profile.
what is a pleasure profile?
Your Pleasure Profile is unique to you. Just like in everything, we are all different and all one of a kind. In discovering your Pleasure Profile you begin to learn what works for you and what doesn't.
What sensations work for you? What feels good and not so good? Are there certain sounds or words you enjoy hearing? Or, is it more about what you are feeling in your body at the time? Is it the energy you feel from your partner? Is it more about what you see or the directness of the touch? Do you like it hard and fast or easy and slow?
All of these give us great information about our profiles!
We all have 5 different Erotic types in our bodies. The combination and percentages are different and some are more prominent that others. However, keeping in mind that just like in all things, this may shift based on where we are in our lives at the time. I also find that usually our dominant type stays dominant at our core.
I learned about the different Erotic types through my Erotic Blueprint training. I ask all my clients to take the quiz and get the results to me! The results are amazing!
What are the 5 different types?
Sensual: The Sensual profiles are usually focused on the 5 senses. What they can feel, smell, taste, hear and see.
Sensuals like touch, fingers running across the body, feathers, soft materials, luscious tastes and smells, candle light, soft music. You can see a Sensual Profile in the stores touching and feeling everything soft or smelling every bath soap or hand lotion.
2. Energetic: The Energetic profiles are all about the Energy. Most Energetics
are interested in Tantra, Tantric Sex, connection on a different level with their
partners. Energetics can often tell when something is off with a partner. There
are 2 types of Energetics. Light Energetics tend to be lighter and more
beyond this world oriented. Dark Energetics tend to be more sultry and
passionate.
Energetics do not like to be touched or hugged out of nowhere. They can often feel you before you touch them and startle easily. They might feel the energy in the room walking in. Energetics will often say things like "she feels off to me", "the energy in here is too much", "I get a nice vibe from him". It is hard for an Energetic to have one night stand with someone they haven't at least had a drink with.
3. Kinky: The Kinky profile is anything and everything taboo. There are 2
different types of kink. Sensation Kink- Impact play, bondage, pain in varying
degrees. Psychological Kink- Name calling, Degradation, Eye contact
restrictions.
Kinks enjoy anything that is taboo or different. Out of the normal everyday routine. Kinks tend to be ones who will give their partner a quick pop on the ass walking by or in the bedroom. Hair-pulling, handcuffs, nipple clamps or perhaps sex with multiple partners. You may notice Kinks have a lot of tattoos.
4. Sexual: The Sexual profile is all about the sex! Direct stimulation and very
visual. They want to see it and touch it. Sexuals are all in and fast. Slowing
down can be difficult.
You will notice Sexuals staring at breasts, asses, and crotches. They can be touchy feely when they find someone who is interesting to them. They can also be very sexually blunt. Some have no problem just saying "I want to fuck you".
5. Shapeshifter: The Shapeshifter profile wants it all! More and more and more!
New and different everything! New experiences, new sensations and the more
the better!
Shapeshifters are always looking for the next sexual experience. Shapeshifters are a combination of all of the profiles at once. They are also pleasers in the bedroom and outside of it.
This is what mine looks like! I am dominantly a Kinky profile, although my profile shows equal of 3 parts. However, based on my preferences and the knowledge of myself I know that I am more of a Sensation Kink Profile. And, I play in all of the profiles!
Why is it important to know your profile?
Knowledge is power! When you really learn about your Pleasure Profile you can gain a deeper understanding of what pleasure your body is longing for. It opens up a whole new world of play!
When our Pleasure Profile isn't being fed we shut down sexually. We don't enjoy sex, we don't enjoy our partners, sometimes we just go through the motions because we are expected to and it can lead to affairs.
In some men, I see this lead to Erectile Dysfunction. When we really start to explore their profile they learn ED wasn't really the problem at all. They were sexually starving.
In some women, I see this lead to not being able to reach orgasm. Again, some are starving to be sexually fed.
Once my clients gain the knowledge of their Pleasure Profile it 's like a light bulb goes off and it all makes sense! Once they have the knowledge there is no turning back!
How can you learn about your pleasure profile?
Schedule a consult call and let's talk! We can schedule a session and get started on you having a better and more pleasurable sex life!
I'll combine your Pleasure Profile with a tailored Sensation Play session. You will experience different sensations in your body and learn more about your pleasure!
You can also take that knowledge out into the world and out to your partner or soon to be partners! Once you know more about Pleasure Profiles, you have the ability to pleasure your partner based on their needs too!
"If pleasure is what you want, do not suppress the desire. Seek it intelligently."
~Huston Smith